Thursday, December 14, 2006

Random 1 - cartoons

Sometimes when I am not feeling my best nothing makes me feel better than a nice cartoon. It makes me laugh, it teaches me lessons and its so deep I find.
I love the songs and the jokes. I cant watch most movies many times but I will watch a cartoon over and over without ever getting tired of it.
I watched Lion King so many times I knew every single song and everything said in that movie.
Same thing with Anastasia, Mulan, Aladin, Hercules, The little mermaid, Pocahontas, Lilo and Stich.... and so on.
Weirdly enough Mary Poppins is still one of my favorite movies, I need to buy the DVD and get excited all over again... ♪ just a spoon full of sugar ♪ makes the medicine go....♪
LOL

What are your favorite cartooooons?

Friday, December 01, 2006

The perfect husband I

Be ready people this is going to be a ridiculously long post lol... or maybe I should do a part "deux". I woke up this morning thinking "I have the perfect husband", and I am sure a lot of wives think the same thing. So what I did was I googled 'perfect husband' just to see what people thought, and I got this post that I am going to copy and paste so you guys can read it:

I have the best husband in the world
I don’t watch movies. I hate movies because I am a realist and I find it very difficult to escape into fantasy when I know that the movie is not real. But then again I am odd.
However, every now and then I will watch a video if there absolutely nothing else to do. There is one line from a movie that had a profound effect on me. It was when Robin Williams was speaking to Matt Damon about his deceased wife in Good Will Hunting. He was telling Matt how happy they were etc and Matt said ‘she sounds perfect, was she?’. (I think they were speaking about whether you could live happily ever after with a life partner). And Robin said something like “no, she wasn’t perfect, she burped or farted (or whatever, can’t remember, not important), but she was perfect for me”.
Wow. That was so enlightening for me. Silly maybe, but I had always wondered the same thing. No one was perfect therefore would I ever find the ‘one’? This was obviously before meeting my husband.
I now know I have the perfect husband for me. He is not perfect by a long shot. He is stubborn, he is totally unromantic and undemonstrative. He does not say I love you very much, he does not talk about feelings, we hardly hug or kiss, we are just not touchy feely people. If I say ‘give me a kiss’, he will (half-jokingly) say ‘but I gave you a kiss this morning’. In fact we each have our own 'half' of the bed and the other person is not allowed to come in your half. Many nights you will hear a screetch "your foot is in my half". I have got up to measure the bed with a tape measure before, to work whether his foot was really in my half or not. My friends think we are a very odd couple. But he is perfect for me. He is exactly the kind of husband I need.
In the beginning, when we first got married, he was very strict, very hard. After a BFN he would get upset with me for getting upset, he would shout at me “if this is how you are going to react then I am not going through this again”. Over the years he has grown and changed so much.


I totally relate with this woman even though I've only been married for 2 months and from her background I realise she's been marrie dfor 5 years. This morning I had a question when I woke up so I called my husband and asked him about it, and I was amazed at the way he answered me and took care of my heart. It just hit me that we truly have a great connection. He is not perfect, he's perfect for me !!! And there are so many things about my husband that someone else might not get and same with me yet together its like I am a reflection of him and he's a reflection of me because of how easily we understand each other. I will continue searching and researching what people say about the perfect husband, and to a certain extent the perfect marriage (even though there is no such thing). I'll keep looking !!!